Being

and wellbeing. somewhat a big long mess on here so far. to sort, merge with communication and organisation

"Do not follow in the footsteps of sages. Seek what they sought."

General

to sort http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Meter_(music)

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Behavioural_economics - see also ux

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychology
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychotherapy

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Humanistic_psychology
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Person-centered_therapy

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Existential_therapy
• http://castle.eiu.edu/~psych/spencer/Existential.html

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_behavioral_therapy
  • https://moodgym.anu.edu.au/welcome
  • https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=4509807

Modern forms of CBT include a number of diverse but related techniques such as exposure therapy, stress inoculation training, cognitive processing therapy, cognitive therapy, relaxation training, dialectical behavior therapy, and acceptance and commitment therapy.

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dialectical_behavior_therapy

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mindfulness_(psychology)
  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9e3z9KNxM80

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Critical_psychology

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Somatic_psychology
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Somatics

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_Potential_Movement

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reactance_(psychology)
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Closure_(psychology)
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Epistemic_closure

• Raw Nerve - Aaron Swartz
• Optimism Reg Braithwaite - raganwald
• Rejection
• Everything is my fault
• http://robertheaton.com/2013/03/11/coding-with-gumption/

• http://www.goodtherapy.org/what-is-good-therapy.html
• http://www.goodtherapy.org/types-of-therapy.html

• http://personcentered.com/nondirect.html

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personal_development

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self_care
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-help

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flourishing
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Strategy

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Critical_theory
• http://wikimindmap.com/viewmap.php?wiki=en.wikipedia.org&topic=Outline+of+critical+theory&Submit=Search
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deconstruction
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ariadne's_thread_(logic)

• http://www.codinghorror.com/blog/2012/03/rubber-duck-problem-solving.html - vocalising issues helps resolve them
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rubber_duck_debugging
• http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=5239673

• https://medium.com/what-i-learned-building/9216e1c9da7d

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hanlon's_razor
• http://meatballwiki.org/wiki/AssumeStupidityNotMalice

• HOWTO: Be more productive
• http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=5119213

• http://www.theatreoftheoppressed.org/

• What’s a mathematician to do?
  • "You keep on learning and learning, and pretty soon you learn something no one has learned before."

• http://slatestarcodex.com/2013/06/13/arguments-from-my-opponent-believes-something/

• http://www.masswerk.at/eliza/

Scientific

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_science

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_neuroscience

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clinical_psychology

• http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn23487-psychiatry-divided-as-mental-health-bible-denounced.html

Habit

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Habit_(psychology)
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Habituation

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Addictive_personality

• http://lesswrong.com/lw/fc3/checklist_of_rationality_habits/

• Willpower Isn't Enough
• Your Goals Are Holding You Back - on habbit creation
• How to hack the beliefs that are holding you back
• Want to create a new habit? Get ready to break it.
• You’re nothing more than a mass of habits
• Unfuck Your Habitat - Terrifying motivation for lazy people with messy homes. Habitat habit.
• http://jstorimer.com/2012/11/30/naivety.html
• http://www.addictionandsubtraction.com/

• http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PPQhj6ktYSo

• http://hackthesystem.com/minimalist-guide/

Direction & change

See Organisation

"The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing." --Stephen R. Covey

• http://blog.idonethis.com/post/37113345206/peter-thiels-unorthodox-management-philosophy-of

Put The Other Thoughts Down

Get Shit Done, etc.

• Dont Follow Your Passion, Follow Your Effort - Mar 18th 2012
• Understanding Change with Cynefin
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ubi_sunt

• http://lifehacker.com/5965703/the-science-of-storytelling-why-telling-a-story-is-the-most-powerful-way-to-activate-our-brains

• The Age at Which the Fire Dims.

"(By the way, try thinking about Imposter Syndrome and the Dunning–Kruger effect in a loop sometime. Fastest way to feeling worthless and confused that I've ever found.)"

to sort

• http://c2.com/cgi/wiki?LifeIsaBigMessyGraph

• http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-23000963
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Compatibilism

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_revolution
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Postcognitivism

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Metacognition

• The Fixer’s Manifesto

• http://www.joelonsoftware.com/articles/LeakyAbstractions.html "All non-trivial abstractions, to some degree, are leaky. Abstractions fail. Sometimes a little, sometimes a lot. There's leakage. Things go wrong. It happens all over the place when you have abstractions. " - Joel Spolsky

• http://bookofhook.blogspot.co.uk/2013/03/smart-guy-productivity-pitfalls.html
• How to Beat Procrastination - 05 Feb 2011
• The Art of Being Still
• http://kadavy.net/blog/posts/mind-management-intro/

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flow_(psychology)
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Task_switching_(psychology)
• http://www.independentdeveloper.com/archive/2009/03/17/programming-is-like-a-dream

• Human Task Switches Considered Harmful for certain kinds of flow
• http://www.johndcook.com/blog/2011/06/09/mental-context-switches-are-evil/
• http://blog.ninlabs.com/2013/01/programmer-interrupted/
• http://www.businessinsider.com/why-programmers-work-at-night-2013-1

• http://www.reddit.com/r/radicalmentalhealth

• Transforming Negative Self-Talk: Some advice that worked
• http://worldobserveronline.com/2012/04/25/15-things-you-should-give-up-to-be-happy/

• The Worst - "The basic premise of the worst is that both ideas and material possessions should be tools that serve us, rather than things we live in service to. When that relationship with material possessions is inverted, such that we end up living in service to them, the result is consumerism. When that relationship with ideas is inverted, the result is ideology or religion."

• http://lesswrong.com/lw/frp/train_philosophers_with_pearl_and_kahneman_not/
  • http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=4891502

• HN: I am depressed and I need someone to talk to
• http://www.reddit.com/r/AdviceAnimals/comments/14xjma/how_about_a_real_confession/ - see comments

• Bipolar - It’s not a bug it’s a feature. - Nov 23 2012

• Effective Web Experimentation as a Homo Narrans - "Humans are at once flawed and remarkable animals. Much as we might imagine ourselves to be rational actors, we aren't. But we can erect frameworks in which we can compel ourselves to behave rationally."

• The Four Types of Activist

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pattern_language - "a structured method of describing good design practices within a field of expertise"

• Christopher Alexander: An Introduction for Object-Oriented Designers

• placepatterns.org - "the objective here is to build an online knowledge resource and community for building and development: to store, showcase, and refine recipes/tools/patterns/examples of successful building and development."

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aphorism

• TED: James Geary, metaphorically speaking - "Aphorism enthusiast and author James Geary http://brendansterne.com/2013/07/11/do-the-right-thing-wait-to-get-fired/waxes on a fascinating fixture of human language: the metaphor. Friend of scribes from Aristotle to Elvis, metaphor can subtly influence the decisions we make, Geary says."

• http://creativeintelligencebook.com/post/41570210573/stop-fetishizing-failure [1]

everything is X all of the Y

• (snowclones)

• Metafilter/HN What one book could give me a new, useful superpower?

• https://bookofbadarguments.com/

See also Mythology

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wilhelm_Reich

• http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_resilience

• Perlmonks: The path to mastery - "When you see the code of master Perl programmers you may be amazed at how few strokes of the keyboard they require to solve a problem completely. Many in error think that they should therefore constantly try to cram as much into as little room as possible. This is a misguided path. Instead strive to understand fully and completely the tool at hand. Explore exactly how it works and what it can do. In addition constantly learn how to build on what you and others have done before. Aim for clarity and comprehension, and mastery shall surely follow. This is a true path."

• http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Compersion

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Happenings

• http://programmers.stackexchange.com/questions/51465/how-to-differentiate-between-trivial-and-non-trivial-software

• https://www.superbetter.com/ - gamification, see organisation
  • http://www.ted.com/talks/jane_mcgonigal_the_game_that_can_give_you_10_extra_years_of_life.html

• http://threads2.scripting.com/2013/january/weExpectTooMuchOfGeeks

• http://www.codinghorror.com/blog/2013/01/the-end-of-ragequitting.html - hmm

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_medium_is_the_message
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eating_your_own_dog_food

• http://www.theatlantic.com/sexes/archive/2013/01/theres-no-such-thing-as-everlasting-love-according-to-science/267199/

• http://philosophy-of-cbt.com/2013/02/03/a-simplified-modern-approach-to-stoicism/

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Desiderata

• I’m trying to be less hyperbolic.
• How to be less boring - 22 Nov 2012
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nonviolent_Communication
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Consensus_decision-making

• http://ymaa.com/articles/violence-dynamics

• http://weeklysift.com/2012/09/10/the-distress-of-the-privileged/
• http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=5192348

• False Memories of Fabricated Political Events

• Ask HN: How do you deal with Rabbit Hole Syndrome?
• Put your thoughts on paper, don’t hold it all in!
• It’s okay to say “I Don’t Know”

• http://daltoncaldwell.com/zen-the-art-of-startup-advice

• http://www.youtube.com/user/zefrank1
  • http://youtube.com/watch?v=RYlCVwxoL_g
  • http://youtube.com/watch?v=qj3JZ6N9Be8
  • http://youtube.com/watch?v=xJ9e32MNEOk
  • http://youtube.com/watch?v=QNnS24qfMSs

• http://seemescotland.org/

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chaos_magic
• http://rationalblogs.org/rationalwiki/2013/04/04/neurolinguistic-programming-totally-self-improvement-not-picking-up-chicks-by-mind-control/

• http://words.steveklabnik.com/deleuze-for-developers-assemblages
• http://words.steveklabnik.com/deleuze-for-developers-will-smooth-spaceopen-source-suffice-to-save-us

• http://edition.cnn.com/2013/01/24/health/love-psychology-book/index.html

• http://blog.bufferapp.com/the-science-of-time-perception-how-to-make-your-days-longer

• http://brendansterne.com/2013/07/11/do-the-right-thing-wait-to-get-fired/

Language

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Language
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Linguistics

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grammar
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grammatical_category

• http://www.edge.org/conversation/how-does-our-language-shape-the-way-we-think

Philosophy

• http://plato.stanford.edu/ - what i used way back when
• http://www.iep.utm.edu/
• http://sqapo.com/chronology.htm

• http://i.imgur.com/Qlnqt.jpg

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Utilitarianism#Act_and_rule_utilitarianism

• http://theycallmeswift.com/2013/06/11/principle-philosophy-for-developers-entrepreneurs-and-artists/

• http://www.historyofphilosophy.net/ - podcast

Philosophy of mind

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Philosophy_of_mind

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Continental_philosophy

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuroethics

Language

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Philosophy_of_language

• http://www.ethnologue.com/

• http://www.teachingenglish.org.uk/activities/phonemic-chart

• http://rhymebrain.com/en

• http://www.howmanysyllables.com/

• http://nitpickertool.com/

• http://norvig.com/mayzner.html

• http://www3.telus.net/linguisticsissues/BritishCanadianAmerican.htm

• http://lotrproject.com/statistics/books/

Phenomenology

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phenomenology_(philosophy)
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phenomenology_(psychology)

Epistemology

• http://cheezburger.com/6881009664

Ontology

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Semiotics

• http://www.labbrand.com/brand-source/semiotics-vs-semiology

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ontology

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ontology_(information_science)
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Upper_ontology

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Semantics

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Syntax

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pragmatics

• http://www.academia.edu/897757/The_complex_dynamics_of_collaborative_tagging

Science

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Philosophy_of_science

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scientific_method

Analytical

• http://www.scribd.com/doc/98921232/Bertrand-Russell-Logicomix

Systems

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Systems_thinking
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Systems_philosophy
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Systems_theory
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Systems_ecology
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Complex_systems
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cybernetics
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-organization
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chaos_theory

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interconnectivity
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interconnectedness
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dependent_origination
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaia_theory

Nondualism

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nondualism

Buddhism

• Wikipedia:Buddhism

http://www.slideshare.net/Nutchawin/existentialism-vs-buddhism-4239069

Third/middle path/way differs from certain existential values. to reread and rethink.

Existentialism

• Wikipedia:Existentialism

is a humanism

• Camus vs. Sartre (Rare BBC Documentary) - video
• http://philosophyforchange.wordpress.com/2010/05/17/camus-authenticity-and-revolt/

Tao

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tao

Morality

• http://archive.org/stream/uclalibrarianv13to14univ/uclalibrarianv13to14univ_djvu.txt - new golden rule

Feminism

• http://geekfeminism.wikia.com/

Articles

• http://tommorris.org/posts/2506
• https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=5729199

Humanism

Edinburgh

• Facebook: Edinburgh Humanists
• Meetup: The Edinburgh Humanist Society of Scotland
• University of Edinburgh Humanist Society
• The Not-Quite-So-Friendly Humanist

Scotland

• Humanist Society of Scotland
• Humanist Society of Scotland Forum
• Humanist Weddings in Scotland

UK

• Humanists for a Better World Links
• British Humanist Association news
• New Humanist
• The Pink Humanist An LGBT magazine for Atheists, Humanists, Sceptics and Freethinkers]
• BHA: Humanist Life

Europe

• European Humanist Federation Links

Social sites

• Think Humanism

• Reddit: humanism
• Reddit: SecularHumanism

Education

• Humanism For Schools | Humanist Perspectives

Culture

• http://www.seattleweekly.com/content/printVersion/1927649/ - on punk [2]
• http://www.nytimes.com/2013/02/10/opinion/sunday/relax-youll-be-more-productive.html?_r=0

• http://blogtarkin.com/2013/01/28/there-is-no-combat-without-movement-enders-game-as-maneuver-warfare-primer/

• http://marktattersall.com/2013/02/managers-as-curators/

• http://matt.might.net/articles/work-life-balance/
• http://franzisk.us/2013/02/18/boost-your-productivity-kill-some-variables-in-your-life/

• http://spectrum.ieee.org/at-work/innovation/facebook-philosophy-move-fast-and-break-things

• http://fighttheurgetofade.com/

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Law_of_attraction - the 'secret'

• http://www.jamesshore.com/Change-Diary/

• http://neojaponisme.com/2011/11/28/the-great-shift-in-japanese-pop-culture-part-one/

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Perception_management

• http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=5312484

• http://www.metafilter.com/125555/The-Psychology-of-Human-Misjudgement-1995-talk-by-Charlie-Munger

• http://www.jamesaltucher.com/2013/03/how-to-get-off-of-bottom-once-and-for-all/

• http://www.techdisruptive.com/2013/03/14/you-have-one-job-eliminate-my-fear/

• http://www.shortlist.com/entertainment/derren-browns-guide-to-overcoming-awkward-situations

• http://calnewport.com/blog/2011/11/11/if-youre-busy-youre-doing-something-wrong-the-surprisingly-relaxed-lives-of-elite-achievers/

• http://tonyadam.com/blog/1091-put-your-thoughts-on-paper/
• http://careercarrot.wordpress.com/2012/06/20/its-okay-to-say-i-dont-know/

• http://daltoncaldwell.com/zen-the-art-of-startup-advice

• http://www.youtube.com/user/zefrank1
  • http://youtube.com/watch?v=RYlCVwxoL_g , http://youtube.com/watch?v=qj3JZ6N9Be8 , http://youtube.com/watch?v=xJ9e32MNEOk , http://youtube.com/watch?v=QNnS24qfMSs

• http://www.seattleweekly.com/content/printVersion/1927649/ - on punk [3]

Audio

• Charlie Kaufman Gives 70-Minute Screenwriting Lecture

Video

• - TEDxHouston - Brené Brown - on vulnerability
  • Brene Brown: The power of vulnerability - TED followup
• Amy Cuddy: Your body language shapes who you are - on power

• Why You Should Rather Die Than Miss A Day In The Gymon work ethic

• http://words.steveklabnik.com/how-do-you-find-the-time/
• Ze Frank: Supposedtobes

"Let me find and use metaphors to help me understand the world around me and give me the strength to get rid of them when it's apparent they no longer work"

Personality tests

• http://shkspr.mobi/blog/2012/12/astrology-for-businesses/

to sort

[4]

• Wikipedia:Virtue epistemology

• Wikipedia:Logotherapy
• Wikipedia:Intersubjectivity
• Wikipedia:Perspectivism
• Wikipedia:Metacognition
• Wikipedia:Semiotics
• Wikipedia:Conceptual framework
• Wikipedia:Value pluralism

• Wikipedia:Social constructionism
• Wikipedia:Post-structuralism
• Wikipedia:Humanistic psychology

• Parenting
• http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/13gwee/i_m_a_nutritionist_i_often_over_hear_people_talk/c73vqgt

most links on this wiki will give you some kind of, like, metaphor...

joining dots, theory and praxis

golden thread;

• http://www8.georgetown.edu/departments/medieval/labyrinth/info_labyrinth/ariadne.html
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ariadne's_thread_(logic)
• http://axtria.com/the-golden-thread-connecting-strategy-and-execution-with-targeting/

finding voice

inner funk (idm)

chaaaaange see organisation etc.

• http://xkcd.com/1154/

creating opportunities

• http://www.smashingmagazine.com/2011/02/25/why-wait-for-the-opportunity-create-your-own/
• http://kherize5.com/are-you-creating-opportunity-or-waiting-for-it-to-come-to-you/

• http://www.thenewatlantis.com/publications/the-folly-of-scientism
• http://whyevolutionistrue.wordpress.com/2012/12/08/the-folly-of-the-folly-of-scientism/

times for the specific, times for the general. FOCUS.

old habbits die hard

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Potential_well

• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Poe's_law