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== Meditation stages ==
 
== Meditation stages ==
 
This is a mish-mash routine. WIP.
 
This is a mish-mash routine. WIP.
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 +
10 minutes a stage, or whatever.
 +
 +
The practice doesn't have to be all stages.
  
 
=== Sitting down ===
 
=== Sitting down ===
 +
-10
 
* find a secluded place
 
* find a secluded place
 +
* become ardent, situationally aware and mindful
 
* take some time to listen to and move your body before sitting down
 
* take some time to listen to and move your body before sitting down
 
* consider sitting with back support or in a chair or [https://dhammawiki.com/index.php/Meditation_postures another posture]
 
* consider sitting with back support or in a chair or [https://dhammawiki.com/index.php/Meditation_postures another posture]
  
* ardent, situationally aware and mindful
+
* mindfulness is to be established well for the sake of knowledge and vision (insight)
* mindfulness is [to be] well established for the sake of knowledge and vision
+
* with experience of the stages both internally and externally, separately then together
* investigating internally and externally, separately then together
 
  
 
=== Breath ===
 
=== Breath ===
* being mindful of and then slowing then letting go of the breath
+
0
 +
* being mindful of, slowing, then letting go of the breath
  
 
=== Body ===
 
=== Body ===
* scan from one end to another, a slow and deep listening to parts of the body
+
10
 +
* scan from one end to another, a slow and deep listening to the sensations of the body
 
* recognise the materials the body is made of, as well as those of other bodies
 
* recognise the materials the body is made of, as well as those of other bodies
  
 
=== Feelings ===
 
=== Feelings ===
* notice pleasant, painful and neutral sensations
+
20
* notice carnal and spiritual
+
* recognise and release pleasant, painful and neutral feelings valences
 +
* recognise and release carnal and/or spiritual feelings
  
 
=== Emotions ===
 
=== Emotions ===
* recognise if lust or without, anger or without, delusion or without
+
30
 +
* recognise if there is lust or not , anger or not, delusion or not
 
* recognise if emotions are concentrated or scattered, exalted or not, surpassed or not
 
* recognise if emotions are concentrated or scattered, exalted or not, surpassed or not
 
* recognise if there is peace, tranquillity or liberation
 
* recognise if there is peace, tranquillity or liberation
  
 
=== Thoughts ===
 
=== Thoughts ===
* recognise and move away from any sensory desire, anger or ill will, sloth or apathy, restlessness or worry, doubt
+
40
 +
* recognise and move away from sensory desire, anger and ill will, sloth and apathy, restlessness and remorse, and doubt
 
* recognise and develop mindfulness, discernment, energy, joy, tranquillity, absorption and equanimity
 
* recognise and develop mindfulness, discernment, energy, joy, tranquillity, absorption and equanimity
* recognise how all these states come to be, how they can be abandoned, and how to avoid them in future
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* recognise how all these states come to be, how they can be abandoned, and how they can be avoided in future
  
 
==== Forgiveness ====
 
==== Forgiveness ====
* mantra: "forgive me, i forgive you, i forgive myself"
+
40/50
 +
* mantra: "forgive me, I forgive you, I forgive myself."
  
 
==== Metta / loving kindness ====
 
==== Metta / loving kindness ====
* mantra: "may all beings, may all beings be well, may all beings realise nibanna"
+
+10
 +
* mantra: "may all beings, may all beings be well, may all beings realise nibanna."
  
* mantra: "may i be happy and free from suffering"
+
* mantra: "may I be happy and free from suffering."
* mantra: "may a teacher, benefactor or respected person be happy and free from suffering"
+
* mantra: "may a teacher, benefactor or respected person be happy and free from suffering."
* mantra: "may a dear platonic friend be happy and free from suffering"
+
* mantra: "may a dear platonic friend be happy and free from suffering."
* mantra: "may a neutral person be happy and free from suffering"
+
* mantra: "may a neutral person be happy and free from suffering."
* mantra: "may a antagonistic person be happy and free from suffering"
+
* mantra: "may a antagonistic person be happy and free from suffering."
  
 
==== Compassion / karuna ====
 
==== Compassion / karuna ====
 +
+10
 
* empathy
 
* empathy
  
* mantra: "If I were given one thousand hands and eyes right this instant, then I will work towards the benefit and happiness of all living beings." (Nīlakaṇṭha Dhāraṇī / Great Compassion Mantra)
+
* mantra: "if I were given one thousand hands and eyes right this instant, then I will work towards the benefit and happiness of all living beings." (Nīlakaṇṭha Dhāraṇī / Great Compassion Mantra)
  
 
==== Compersion / mudita ====
 
==== Compersion / mudita ====
 +
+10
 
* sympathetic joy
 
* sympathetic joy
** to the joy of another - diad
+
** to the joy of another (dyad)
** to the joy of two others - triad
+
** to the joy of two others (triad)
** to the joy of a group - network
+
** to the joy of a group (network)
 
** to the joy of all beings
 
** to the joy of all beings
  
 
==== Equanimity / upekkha ====
 
==== Equanimity / upekkha ====
 +
+10
 
* allow equanimity, to accept reality as-it-is without craving or aversion
 
* allow equanimity, to accept reality as-it-is without craving or aversion
 
* aware, non-reactive, cool
 
* aware, non-reactive, cool
 
* peace and acceptance
 
* peace and acceptance
 
* like a reed in the wind
 
* like a reed in the wind

Revision as of 17:33, 23 August 2019

In general

Aspects of personal state to reflect and reflex on:

  • sleep
  • breath
  • posture
  • water
  • temp
  • teeth
  • food / meals
  • movements
  • supplements
  • wash face and moisturise
  • wash self
  • to do lists
  • chores
  • communications
  • appointments
  • logistics
  • finances
  • tools

Morning


Meditation stages

This is a mish-mash routine. WIP.

10 minutes a stage, or whatever.

The practice doesn't have to be all stages.

Sitting down

-10

  • find a secluded place
  • become ardent, situationally aware and mindful
  • take some time to listen to and move your body before sitting down
  • consider sitting with back support or in a chair or another posture
  • mindfulness is to be established well for the sake of knowledge and vision (insight)
  • with experience of the stages both internally and externally, separately then together

Breath

0

  • being mindful of, slowing, then letting go of the breath

Body

10

  • scan from one end to another, a slow and deep listening to the sensations of the body
  • recognise the materials the body is made of, as well as those of other bodies

Feelings

20

  • recognise and release pleasant, painful and neutral feelings valences
  • recognise and release carnal and/or spiritual feelings

Emotions

30

  • recognise if there is lust or not , anger or not, delusion or not
  • recognise if emotions are concentrated or scattered, exalted or not, surpassed or not
  • recognise if there is peace, tranquillity or liberation

Thoughts

40

  • recognise and move away from sensory desire, anger and ill will, sloth and apathy, restlessness and remorse, and doubt
  • recognise and develop mindfulness, discernment, energy, joy, tranquillity, absorption and equanimity
  • recognise how all these states come to be, how they can be abandoned, and how they can be avoided in future

Forgiveness

40/50

  • mantra: "forgive me, I forgive you, I forgive myself."

Metta / loving kindness

+10

  • mantra: "may all beings, may all beings be well, may all beings realise nibanna."
  • mantra: "may I be happy and free from suffering."
  • mantra: "may a teacher, benefactor or respected person be happy and free from suffering."
  • mantra: "may a dear platonic friend be happy and free from suffering."
  • mantra: "may a neutral person be happy and free from suffering."
  • mantra: "may a antagonistic person be happy and free from suffering."

Compassion / karuna

+10

  • empathy
  • mantra: "if I were given one thousand hands and eyes right this instant, then I will work towards the benefit and happiness of all living beings." (Nīlakaṇṭha Dhāraṇī / Great Compassion Mantra)

Compersion / mudita

+10

  • sympathetic joy
    • to the joy of another (dyad)
    • to the joy of two others (triad)
    • to the joy of a group (network)
    • to the joy of all beings

Equanimity / upekkha

+10

  • allow equanimity, to accept reality as-it-is without craving or aversion
  • aware, non-reactive, cool
  • peace and acceptance
  • like a reed in the wind